{"id":186,"date":"2025-02-28T20:25:58","date_gmt":"2025-02-28T20:25:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/atwtheblog.wordpress.com\/2025\/02\/28\/access-denied-grading-your-mind-heart-and-spirit\/"},"modified":"2026-02-26T00:43:52","modified_gmt":"2026-02-26T00:43:52","slug":"access-denied-grading-your-mind-heart-and-spirit","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/withlovedivine.com\/access-denied-grading-your-mind-heart-and-spirit\/","title":{"rendered":"Access Denied! Guarding Your Mind, Heart and Spirit."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Imagine this: You just moved into a beautiful new apartment. It\u2019s perfect\u2014clean, peaceful, and filled with light. Then, one day, someone knocks on your door. You open it to find a stranger holding a dripping trash bag, smiling.<br \/><br \/>\u201cHey, can I dump this in your living room?\u201d<br \/><br \/>Ridiculous, right? No one in their right mind would allow that. But spiritually, many of us do this daily\u2014letting in toxic influences, corrupt conversations, and content that pollutes our souls.<br \/><br \/><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Eve\u2019s Biggest Mistake: Entertaining the Wrong Voice<br \/><br \/>Eve\u2019s downfall wasn\u2019t just eating the forbidden fruit\u2014it started with listening to the wrong voice. Genesis 3:1 says, \u201cNow the serpent was more crafty than any of the wild animals the Lord God had made. He said to the woman, \u2018Did God really say\u2026?\u2019\u201d The moment she engaged in that conversation, she opened the door to deception.<br \/><br \/>Like Eve, we often entertain things that should be denied access. We watch movies that twist biblical truth, read books that normalize immorality, and engage in gossip that poisons our relationships. The Bible warns in 1 Corinthians 15:33, \u201cDo not be misled: \u2018Bad company corrupts good character.\u2019\u201d<br \/><br \/><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, what are the things we should deny access to?<br \/><br \/>1. <strong>Not All Movies and Books Are For You<\/strong><br \/><br \/>Culture tells us that \u201cit\u2019s just entertainment,\u201d but what we consume shapes us. Would you drink poisoned water just because it\u2019s in a fancy bottle? No! Then why let spiritual toxins into your mind?<br \/><br \/>Consider this: Horror movies like The Conjuring and Hereditary normalize demonic activity, making evil seem like entertainment. Books filled with explicit content, like 50 Shades of Grey, distort God\u2019s design for love and purity. Even fantasy books with occultic themes can desensitize us to witchcraft (Deuteronomy 18:10-12).<br \/><br \/>Instead, <em><mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);color:#2913de\" class=\"has-inline-color\"><strong>Philippians 4:8 gives us a better filter: \u201cWhatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure\u2026 think about such things.\u201d<\/strong><\/mark><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><br \/><strong>2. Gossip and Slander: The Poison You Don\u2019t See<\/strong><br \/><br \/>Ever been in a conversation where someone starts with, \u201cI don\u2019t mean to gossip, but\u2026\u201d? That\u2019s your cue to run! Gossip is a silent killer\u2014it destroys friendships, breeds mistrust, and, worst of all, displeases God. <em><mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);color:#2414eb\" class=\"has-inline-color\"><strong>Proverbs 16:28 says, \u201cA perverse person stirs up conflict, and a gossip separates close friends.\u201d<\/strong><\/mark><\/em><br \/><br \/>When someone brings negativity, imagine slamming a spiritual door in their face and saying, \u201cAccess denied!\u201d Protect your peace.<br \/><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>3. <strong>Social Media: The Subtle Trap<\/strong><br \/><br \/>Scrolling through Instagram, TikTok, or Twitter, it\u2019s easy to be influenced without realizing it. Trends normalize things God calls sin. From explicit content to toxic \u201crelationship advice,\u201d social media is full of subtle deceptions. Jesus said in <em><strong><mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);color:#0e22eb\" class=\"has-inline-color\">Matthew 6:22, \u201cThe eye is the lamp of the body. If your eyes are healthy, your whole body will be full of light.\u201d<\/mark><\/strong><\/em><br \/><br \/>Ask yourself:<br \/><br \/>Does this content draw me closer to God or further away?<br \/><br \/>Would I watch this if Jesus were sitting beside me?<br \/><br \/><br \/>If not, access denied!<br \/><br \/>4. <strong>Negative Friendships: Not Everyone Deserves a Key<\/strong><br \/><br \/>You don\u2019t have to be friends with everyone. Some people drain you spiritually, pushing you into compromise. Proverbs 13:20 warns, \u201cWalk with the wise and become wise, for a companion of fools suffers harm.\u201d<br \/><br \/>Jesus loved everyone, but He didn\u2019t give everyone equal access. He had the crowd, the 12 disciples, and then His inner circle (Peter, James, and John). Learn from Him\u2014love people, but be selective about who speaks into your life.<br \/><br \/><strong>Setting Up Spiritual Boundaries<\/strong><br \/><br \/>Filter your content: Choose movies, books, and music that align with God\u2019s truth.<br \/><br \/>Avoid toxic conversations: If it\u2019s gossip, slander, or negativity, walk away.<br \/><br \/>Monitor your social media intake: Follow pages that feed your spirit, not your flesh.<br \/><br \/>Surround yourself with godly influences: Friendships should help, not hinder, your faith.<br \/><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Final Word: Keep the Door Shut!<\/strong><br \/><br \/>Eve made the mistake of allowing the enemy into her mind. You don\u2019t have to do the same. Just because the world accepts something doesn\u2019t mean you should. <strong><em><mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);color:#171def\" class=\"has-inline-color\">Proverbs 4:23 reminds us, \u201cAbove all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.\u201d<\/mark><\/em><\/strong><br \/><br \/>From today, make it your mission: If it corrupts, distracts, or tempts\u2014access denied!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/atwtheblog.wordpress.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/file-pea5nqvnu2edryqewaxcmk4921733741399589692.jpg?w=1024\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-184\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/atwtheblog.wordpress.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/file-rsnvunan3hnm6zm4kcj5ps4353670525544125148.jpg?w=1024\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-185\" \/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Imagine this: You just moved into a beautiful new apartment. It\u2019s perfect\u2014clean, peaceful, and filled with light. Then, one day, someone knocks on your door. You open it to find a stranger holding a dripping trash bag, smiling. \u201cHey, can I dump this in your living room?\u201d Ridiculous, right? 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